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Diamonds and Pearls of WisdomThe DivorceWizards Blog, by Lynne DiamondI Know Nothing Good Comes From Divorce...Saturday, October 28, 2006 My friend told me that when she came to pick up her son from a play date with my son. She thanked me for keeping her kid all day; told me the baby took a long nap; and she and her hubby had a chance to talk and decided to get a divorce."I disagree" I told her. Often, not always, good things come out of divorce. Here are some examples. Sometimes, an uninvolved father turns into a really good dad when a stressful marriage is put to rest. Sometimes, either or both people may meet their soul mate and live happily ever after with them. Sometimes, the person without a career may develop a successful career which makes them more happy than staying home as a married. Not true, I say. Many good things may come from divorce. Actually the woman who said that to me ended up reconciling with her husband. Once they were pushed against the wall, they decided to try to save their marriage. And why not? Marriage is something certainly worth saving. There are those who think the grass is greener on the other side – one divorced woman once told me that sometimes, there isn’t even any grass – only dirt. So certainly try to save your marriage if you can. If not, at least save the divorce. Go the peaceful route so you won’t need to hold on to bitterness for the rest of your life. |